It’s funny how the Apostle Paul talks about singleness being a gift, and yet today, I believe singleness is considered by most to be anything but a blessing. I know that I scoffed at the idea of it being a gift. If anything, I felt betrayed by God for forcing me to be a single young adult. In some ways, it hurt my pride because I had this belief that the term “single” came along with the stigma that I was unwanted. It took me much wrestling with God before I began to see the gifts of singleness and that I was a gift as a single person.